"When haya (modesty) is a part of anything it becomes beautiful." [Tirmidhi]
Marriage is one of the sunnah. And nobody said following the sunnah of our beloved Prophet Muhammad SAW was going to be easy. Because Jannah is NOT easy peasy. Hence keep your mujahadah at its best. Not merely by looking for Siti Hajar, but also be as good as our prophet Ibrahim AS. InsyaAllah we can dream of having Ismail in the family.